I don't think this is a religious issue. Please read those pages carefully. It's about normal human behavior and expectations. I can't tell you how many times I've made the same mistakes listed in those pages. Many times. Always wit embarrassment. My mailer has reply and reply-all and I use them consciously every day. with the new setting I hit reply-all and I generate 2 copies to the list... so this list becomes unlike all the others I am on. You may still disagree, but I think there is some sound logic behind the idea. -brad