I don't think this is a religious issue. Please read those pages
carefully. It's about normal human behavior and expectations.
I can't tell you how many times I've made the same mistakes
listed in those pages. Many times. Always wit embarrassment.
My mailer has reply and reply-all and I use them consciously every day.
with the new setting I hit reply-all and I generate 2 copies to the
list... so this list becomes unlike all the others I am on.
You may still disagree, but I think there is some sound logic
behind the idea.
-brad