I don't normally like referring to "fight club" because its a crap
movie. But "we don't talk about fight club" is a really useful rule.

If you name call people on a list too much, they don't want to be on
the list. It's not a place to collect gold stamps, or rare birds.

I suspect I'd pass half the members of the list on the street and fail
to recognize them. I very much hope this is reciprocated.

cheers

-G